Hi Twirl,I do better with the data versus the charts, but the sun and moon conjunction makes you natural friends as family members.
The rule of thumb I use is no more than 10 degrees for aspects.
Also, any square to Saturn show karmic things to be worked out. Angles are important, but look to the 5th house and what planets fall into the others chart through the synastry as well as connections between the ruler of the 5th house and where its located as aspects to that.
If you can put the data up, I can take another look.
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